Weekly LightBlast


I mentioned a few weeks ago that we were embarking on a period of focus geared toward shifting our inner perspective, which determines how we perceive and interact with life.  A balanced, empowered ego is an important part of that.  We are often taught that ego is a bad thing.  Actually it is a vital part of being human.  Being egoless is the equivalent to no longer being human – we’ll all get there one day but for now our experience is to enjoy being human.  Many are responding to the issue of an ego that is out of balance as meaning there should be no ego.  This is also a reflection of the manipulation of it is better to give than receive and you should be selfless to prove your worth to God.  It is important to give and receive and to care for the self and others.  Each of the two energies support continued Flow.   What seems opposite (give/receive) is merely two ends of a full spectrum.  If you only give, not only do you deplete, but you deny others the ability to give what you could receive from them.  If you only receive, not only do you saturate, but you deny yourself the satisfying experience of giving to another.  Each interaction is not measured for exact equality, we are brilliantly designed to have clues when we are out of balance with our flow in general.  Our first indications are intuitive/emotional feelings. 
The ego is how we differentiate ourselves from others.  That is what life is all about.  We are here in separate bodies, with separate minds, with unique perspectives, experiences and choices.  Separation is real and valuable; it provides the platform for interaction and expansion.  Of course, it’s only half of the story, as we are also all united.  A balanced ego supports courage, growth, creativity, diversity, compassion, global community, acceptance, patience, encouragement, win/win.  I could go on and on. When an ego is out of balance, whether the person seems domineering or subservient, it lends to behavior that inhibits mutually supportive interaction (give/receive out of balance, passive/active out of balance, etc.).  There is a time for all things, and when our ego is balanced we easily move back and forth between the essence of the moment.   Is it a moment of teaching or learning, a moment of sharing your gift or receiving the gift of another?  If you really look at these, they are the same.  When you teach from a balanced ego, you learn.  When you teach from an unbalanced ego, you see yourself as better than the students, infallible and constantly proving your worth.  When you give from a balanced ego, you receive.  When you receive from a balanced ego, the giver has the joy of sharing that is missing from the person that is too self-deprecating to receive.
When we utilize our ego to Love ourselves, feel Compassion for ourselves and Empower ourselves – which means balancing ourselves, we become clear channels for that energy to Flow to others.  Imagine if everyone clearly lived their immeasurable value and easily supported the limitless value of others.  It would be a wonderful place of joyous sharing.  We’re working our way there!  It starts within you.  It starts with you valuing yourself and your needs and balancing that with the value and needs of others.  As you move past each challenge, you’ll find more ease and flow in life.  Patience will be natural as you won’t find the need to control, force or prove.  The talents of others will inspire you.  The joy of expressing your unique perspective (ego) and talents will have no need upon it. When you live life from a balanced ego, your individuality becomes an obvious extension of the Whole.  Separation is still part of life, that is the nature of form, but the Unity and the unseen become far more obvious as well.  A balanced ego expressing fills your life with the Flow of Love.  When Love Flows the world changes.
As we sit to Blast Resetting Ego, we are opening to Flow the unique Song of our Soul that compelled us to individuate into human form.  We are remembering that Unity is inherent in all separation and the gift of diversity applies to all Life.  We are appreciating our talents, our challenges and our choices as they all lend to improving Life.  We are recognizing the immense and innate value in All Beings as their glory is nurtured into manifestation with our open heart, our courageous compassion and empowering boundaries.  We are enjoying the journey of discovering our capacity to find Love in situations that seem opposite but are merely opportunity to increase the breadth of Love.  We are choosing to view ourselves, others and All Life from the perspective of Source.  We are remembering that All Life is united, unique and immeasurably valuable.  That is the gift of each moment that we experience with our unique perspective.  Blast on!


As we refine the limitations of the old way of doing things and establish new and personal guidelines for our path, we are often faced with emotional upsets, boundary setting, confrontations and wondering whether we made the right choices.  Boundary setting and confrontation doesn’t have to be a yelling match.  Though often there is an uncomfortable quality to it until you really start to feel comfortable in your new Empowerment.  Most often this state of Empowerment, which should be rather natural, is not what is taught as acceptable in society or even in some spiritual teachings. 
We are moving into a state of increased Love and Compassion for ourselves, others, Earth, animals, etc.  But dealing with life day to day with Love and Compassion can be confusing and challenging as we deal with what has been, what is and what we want life to be.  Each Lightworker is going through Ascension from a different perspective.  The Zen monk will have a different path than the person working in corporate world.  The pre-school teacher will have a different experience than the person interacting with drug addicts.  All of these perspectives are valuable.  Each requires a personal choice of boundaries based on what they are dealing with in order to maintain strength and compassion that best serves the moment For All involved.  Imagine that pre-school teacher only saying yes so as not to hurt a child’s feelings.  Not very effective For All involved.  Now imagine the teacher only says no because discipline must be maintained above all else.  Also not very effective For All involved.  There is a balance of boundaries and Compassion that speaks Love whether through yes or no. 
We are systems of interaction.  We emit and receive vibrational signals that speak and listen to all that is around us – people, animals, nature, food, cycles of life and death, choice, limitation, emotion, instinct…it is endless.  We are interacting with ourselves and our own perception and desires.  We interact with other people, with collective energy, with the impulse of our Spirit, with misinformation, with inspiration, with the past, the future.  The interaction never stops.  Our job is to interpret, evaluate based on our choice and interact with the maximum amount of Love, Compassion and Empowerment available in the moment.  That is Ascension. That is life.
It is our Acension path that beckons us to Empowerment within these interactions from a basis of Love.  To do that, we have to redefine what Love really means to us individually.  We have to redefine what Empowerment really means to us individually.  And then we have to live by those guidelines even if others don’t agree, observing whether we are acting with Love, Compassion and Empowerment.  This is why often during the process of Ascension we have friends and family members that are no longer in our life.  We change our habits, we enjoy spending time doing different things and we tolerate some things more easily while other things we will no longer abide. 
One of the misconceptions that is being refined is service.  It was seen as an act of love and piety to be in service and give up the self for others and/or God.  We are not here just to serve God, we are here to honor the perfection of what God created within each of us.  With that, the natural flow of the Love of God becomes every day life, whether that means saying yes or no.  Complete servitude doesn’t honor your unique gift of choice, perspective and Joy that teaches others the strength and beauty that is within them.  Sharing your Love, your bounty and teaching through Being Whole is true Service.  A mother and father serve their children by providing them Love, food, safety, etc., but an important lesson they also teach their children is how to nurture the self, how to set personal boundaries, how to respect the self enough to say no in a compassionate way because the needs of each person must be met to best of everyone’s ability.  It is the true meaning of For All.  We do this through our refined meaning of Love, Compassion and Empowerment.  At times we say yes, we compromise, we put the needs of others ahead of our own – that is the wisdom choice of the moment based on the circumstances.  At times, we say no, we hold a boundary, we put the needs of the self ahead of others because that is the wisdom choice of the moment.  All that are interacting learn something that takes them beyond the moment.  That each person can give and receive based on their need in the moment.  That each person can see through the eyes of Compassion and Empowerment within each moment.  That each person is capable of providing for themselves, of sharing with others, of teaching others to provide for themselves and of receiving from others.  The circle is complete.  One serves the All and the All serves the One.  Our perspective is through ourselves, but the reflection is through the beauty of others, through the beauty of the world Source created and then Empowered us to steward.  The system of interaction is so perfectly designed to remind of Love when forgotten, to teach of Compassion when called, to show of  Empowerment that is built-in to the beauty of all the systems and cycles of Life.
As we sit to Blast For All, we are opening our heart to the beauty within each person ever to grace this earth.  We are recognizing our inherent value that is infinite, not earned.  We are choosing to show others a lasting Peace within as they are taught in a moment and enhanced for a lifetime.  We are remembering that our equality with All is the Truth, no matter how others may judge.  We are taking the bold stance of Loving in the face of ease, the face of challenge, the face of anger or the face of pain; for these are all shades of Love to the wise one that sees each person as a powerful reflection of Source.  We are teaching others to remember their inherent Grace, that the Power of Love is their True Power.  We understand that our Love knows when yes or when no best serves All in a moment.  Through honoring the Self, we honor the All.  When Love is full within you, you can’t help but gaze through its Light.  That is beauty reflected.  That is the Truth of Life.  That is how you really change the world.  One person at a time, For All.  Blast on!


We are continuing on last week’s theme of releasing beliefs that no longer serve our Empowerment (Joyful, Creative, Love-based living and more ease with challenge).  Last week we worked on Allowing Access to Core Beliefs.  With that process we began to observe more of life from a perspective of new possibility, new solution, Exciting Peace and Freedom as we align with our Divine Nature. 
Free And Open Believing is living in the Now.  Living in the Now means being well with the past, for it grew you to the strong, capable and compassionate Being you are Now.  Living in the Now means being well with the future, for you are Divinely capable and creating is best served when you are in Joy and Flow.  A Now moment that isn’t ideal?  It is a great teacher, a great platform for choice, an exercise to strengthen patience, Trust and new-perspective-seeking.  Living in the Now is an ease with the moment and also an ease with the past and the future.  This is different than living in the past or the future.  You ‘live’ in the past or future when the emotional charge of it taints your Now.  This doesn’t even mean that you are thinking of the past or future.  If your choice in the Now is lacking Freedom to create because of resentment of the past or fear of the future, then you are not freely living in the Now. 
Free And Open Believing is still grounded in reality.  You are able to participate fully in life; running errands, working a less than ideal job at the moment, aligning with increased money flow in the future, dealing positively with family members, forgiving past hurts.  With Free And Open Believing, you access Source Perspective in everyday life.  Sometimes it may come after the fact, but when you are Open, it always comes.  It often requires diligent awareness to the subtleties of life, as it can be habitual to expect the same.  Your Openness to change offers you the gradual growth that is evident in nature, while still being open to miraculous shift.  This is equivalent to Being rather than Doing.  There is action when you are Being, but it is inspired rather than forced.  Forced action may produce some result in the physical, but inspired action creates a strong foundation that will sustain expansion.  The unseen Love that permeates inspired action enhances the magnetic Pull toward improvement. 
As we sit to Blast Free And Open Believing, we are continuing our quest for inspiration and Creative Living through releasing outdated, limiting beliefs.  We are open to the Divine Guidance that resides within our sacred heart and utilizing our magnificent brains to create within Joy.  We are becoming the Divine Creators we were meant to Be.  We are allowing others to choose their path as we choose our own.  We are bringing hope to the world through our ability to Love when Love is not obvious.  We are F.O.C.U.S.ed on the new possibility that Free And Open Believing is able to create.  Love and Compassion are the way to healing, and healing brings new solution, new community, new interaction to Life.  Blast on!


Over the next few months, the LightBlast will be opening us to a balanced ego that understands our Sovereignty and Empowerment and interacts with the world from a space of Freedom, Love and Sharing Joy.  I capitalize these words when they have an expanded meaning that applies to living as a Divine Human, merging Source perspective with human perspective.  Thus Freedom isn’t just ‘I don’t have to’ or ‘I can if I want to;’ it becomes ‘Creativity is infinite and humanity’s unbounded capacity to create is unique and united.’  This space of balanced ego will be preparing us for the Unity that we will be expanding into.  We are ‘expanding into’ Unity because we were never un-united, we have been shutting down our full capacity due to lack of understanding of our Free nature, our powerful Love and our ability to Create.  With this, we shift the reality of humanity from opposition, polarity and duality to Understanding, Choice and Compassion. 
There are beliefs that are specific to our experiences, there are beliefs that are specific to our community/tribe (which can be local, country, race, peers, gender, religion), there are beliefs that are specific to humanity and life on Earth.  Any of these could be conscious or unconscious.  A belief is something that we accept as true.  A core belief is one that affects other beliefs, like when you pull a stone from a building foundation, the whole building falls.  Some beliefs are obvious, others are vague or only half-believed (I believe in the Law of Attraction but how did this happen?!) while still others are unconscious and not something we would consciously choose at this stage in our life.  I encounter this in individual sessions, beliefs that we took on when we were younger that are still affecting our life today, but that we do not logically believe at this age.  Beliefs can be supportive and Freeing (God is Love) or limiting and destructive (women are less valuable than men).  In the previous example (women are less valuable than men) I personally may not believe that, but I may have vague, undefined belief structures that are affecting it (i.e. women don’t get paid as well as men in corporate America).
The LightBlast is about healing the Self and in turn, shaping this world for the better.  We do this by living an Empowered life, by living a Joyful life and by dealing with challenge and change with as much Love and Compassion as available in the moment, and seeking to ever increase our quotient of Love and Compassion.  This begins with Love and Compassion for the Self, so that Love and Compassion are shared with others from a place of strength and teaching, not martyrdom or savior-dom.  This LightBlast in particular is asking us to reach deep into our collective wisdom and begin to address some core beliefs that are blocking humanity from Divine Love and Empowerment.  It begins within.  It begins with your courage to seek balance and seek a new perspective.  It then asks you to live in the awareness of new possibility, when perhaps it isn’t manifest in form yet, when perhaps it’s not reflected in the media, when perhaps it’s not the perspective of another who still resides in fear and lack, who does not understand their Divine Creative Power.  You need not convince anyone.  You need not voice it, you will know if that is applicable.  You are just seeking a new perspective that opens the door for new possibility of Love and Empowerment for yourself, which affects how you live your life and interact with others.  The world changes.
Allowing Access to Core Beliefs is the surrender to Divine Will from the basis of Empowered Sovereignty.  It’s not ‘Thy Will be done,’ it’s ‘Thy Will be One.’ It is the understanding that as an individual, we are each connected, responsive and Divinely dependent upon All our surroundings for Life.  It is the understanding that the beautiful game of Polarity that we live on this plane of duality calls forth Integration, the duality becoming triality; I am One, I am All, All is Love.  It is the Knowing that you are powerful enough to release the chains of limitation and open to expansion.  Allowing Access to Core Beliefs is opening the door to new possibility based in Love, releasing what does not serve Empowerment and becoming the Joyful Creator you were meant to Be.  That childlike wonderment and flow through Life that is possible while balancing the responsibilities of adulthood. 
What are these Core Beliefs we are Allowing Access to?  Some personal beliefs, some community/tribe beliefs and some collective beliefs will be transformed, so it is not really possible to list them all.  We are transforming beliefs that don’t serve Empowerment.  We will be releasing beliefs that are founded in lack, in fear and insecurity.  We will be opening to Sharing, to Joy, to Understanding, to Creativity, to Love, to Freedom.  It doesn’t mean we will never have challenge, it means within the experience of Life, we will have more ease with change, more patience with manifestation, more Freedom to navigate our world toward Joy. 
We are asked to Blast ‘Allowing Access’ to Core Beliefs because we are Sovereign Beings.  Source does not choose what you believe; you were Created with a beautiful heart/mind and Free Will to choose for yourself.  I certainly do not choose what you believe.  You are not going remove beliefs that serve you or that you want.  You are Allowing Access to yourself and to your Higher Self, that part of you that resides with Source Energy, sees with a broader perspective, a Divine Perspective.  You are ‘Allowing Access’ because choice and free will are your Divine Birthright, because part of your journey will be to discern and choose through experience, not just a one-time shot of all your beliefs changing at once.  Transformation needs time to form, to refine, to adjust, to form again. 
As we sit to Blast Allowing Access to Core Beliefs, we are beginning a transformation toward our Empowerment and a world united in Love.  We are releasing that which no longer serves us and activating our Divine Potential to create anew.  We are remembering that we are created From Love, to Expand Love.  We are clearing our energetic field of that which blocks our creative ability and opening to new possibility and movement.  We are remembering that Life is to be lived with Joy and ease as the natural Pull of Life is toward improvement, even if challenge is the experience of the moment.  We are shifting the reality of humanity from struggle to cooperation.  We are accessing our Original Blueprint, our Divine Nature, our innate Power.  That Power is Love.  Blast on!


Expectation is another theme (just like last week’s Freedom) that resurfaces intermittently.  As I have watched surprising manifestations and changes over the years, I’ve noticed that expectations within fear will often limit the manifestation.  Certainly not all expectations come from fear, nor am I one who thinks we should have no expectations.  On the contrary, I expect improvement all the time!  But expectation out-of-balance is commensurate with limitation.  It signifies a lack of Trust in your capability, whether that is your capability to create, to transform or even to have patience, to name a few.  There is a time for specificity with expectation and there is a time for openness.  This speaks to the times of openness, where expectation nurtures improvement and fear and lack become obsolete.  There are three areas that we are guided to ponder, but they need not be your only focus.
The first area requiring openness is time itself.  This is a challenging one.  There are some things we expect, particularly around money and also relationship, in a certain period of time.  I know it feels like you need them in a certain period of time, it’s not just a selfish expectation!  But the truth is, with exception that is more rare than not, there is always an answer that comes within the time of necessity.  It may not be the most awesome answer ever (i.e. ‘I finally got enough to pay this bill this month’), but there’s always an answer for those that will hear it and heed it.  Most people don’t end up involuntarily out on the street.  Usually, time is something that takes care of itself, as the system of life (not the system of man – we’re creating a new one!) was made to continue flow toward improvement.  It is definitely a balance of focus on a positive and realistic perspective, inspired action and trust.  Trusting time and yet using time to your advantage is a vital point of balance as we deal with so much going on in our lives and really owning the power to create what we want to live.  Patience is helpful to living a peaceful, balanced and creative life. 
Also requiring openness are the ‘burdens’ of life.  As we participate in life on earth, there are some general items that can not be avoided.  Taxes are certainly one of them.  Death, too (Damn, that adage is correct!)  Challenging emotions.  Errands.  Bills.  House cleaning.  Preparing food that’s healthy.  The list is endless.  What is important is that your perspective of them is a healthy mix of understanding that there are times of participating in life that means you might not be doing exactly what you want in every moment, but that you do have the option to enjoy most moments.  I used to vaguely punish myself for a ‘to do’ list that was never-ending.  I had an unwritten list of things that needed to be perfect before I was ‘off duty’ and able to relax.  That kind of pressure doesn’t help maintain a joyful present moment.  It’s important to deal realistically with the things that must be done, progress towards completing projects and reward yourself by enjoying the moments along the way.  I’m now rather organized in a way that really suits ease and responsibility.  When I find that something is becoming overwhelming or I’m dreading it, I look at what’s behind the feeling.  I then find a perspective that I believe that will help me enjoy a little more (i.e. not ‘I LOVE doing my taxes SOOOO much!!!’ but ‘I appreciate my easy system and my tax preparer’).  We must take responsibility for our enjoyment, not wait for it to be presented.  Expecting ease and enjoyment in most moments of life is realistic, positive and focused toward improvement while being grounded in reality. 
Part of Releasing Expectation is releasing manipulation.  Manipulation comes in many forms and it always comes from a perspective of fear or lack.  As Lightworkers on the quest of Ascension, our work is finding the areas where we are not in complete integrity and authenticity.  This is not an indication of failure or being a bad person, just an area that is now coming up for clearing (or additional clearing).  Manipulation can be subtle or it can be obvious deception or coercion.  You can’t pick and choose based on the magnanimity of the outcome (i.e. it’s bad for the oil companies to manipulate emotions, but it’s ok for Greenpeace to manipulate emotions).  You can’t justify manipulation for any reason.  You can inform, you can want, you can prefer – but to manipulate indicates that there is a desired outcome that is not being presented honestly or is being presented to persuade.  Manipulation plays on the emotions (often to touch on the insecurities, but not always) and gives the manipulator some sort of benefit.  It could be financial, sexual or egoic, among others.  To manipulate is not to trust the force of Love to be enough to magnetize the life you want to live.  No matter what you want, you have potential to create it with full disclosure.  
As we sit to Blast Releasing Expectation, we are opening to the Free Flow of expecting improvement while being open to the path it presents.  We are no longer resistance to What Is, but appreciative of the opportunity to navigate change with greater ease.  We are remembering that the subatomic world, the unseen, is building anew upon the magnetic vortex of Love.  We are observing our blessed lessons of release as we seek to interact with this beautiful world through Love, where we once felt fear, blame, resentment, lack or shame.  We are opening our second chakra to create with Love, to forgive with ease, to heal with Joy.  We are aligning our heart and our mind as we no longer need to figure out how to get what we want, we just need to Love our moments, our selves, our life, our world.  We are detached and compassionate when the world around us still feels compelled to manipulate as we hold a space of Empowerment to Light the way to Divine Creation in human form.  We are strong in the Knowing that Truth is the answer spoken in the language of Love.  Blast on!


In 2011, we haven’t gone a full 2 months without some Freedom focus and here it comes again.  Freedom is a big one, it requires individual thinking in a world of suppression and marketing savvy.  I notice as all the bad news (or ‘good’ news?) goes on in the world around me and sometimes specific to my own life, I react and spin in my feelings about it.  It’s not that I desire to have no emotions about the things that go on around me, I welcome the emotions.  It’s that I desire not to be controlled by the circumstances around me.  This is where we find Freedom Is Mine.  Not everyone is going to have the same reaction or expectations from life.  Not everyone is going to choose honesty, altruism or even equality for themselves or others.  It’s fascinating to watch as we each make choices about life, about the world, about a situation; at times surprised by our courage or our vulnerability, maybe even some ignorance, too. 
Freedom Is Mine reminds us that we aren’t here to live cookie-cutter lives that are just like those that we feel we want to emulate, or that our parents, parishioners or peers tell us to emulate.  We are here to discover our uniqueness and continue the Flow of Life through our joy of living it to the fullest available in the moment.  That means listening to our heart when it tells us something different from another.  Most importantly, it means listening to our heart when it tells us something different than what we think we want.  That’s a hard one.  Sometimes we want something to fill a void that we have trouble admitting to ourselves, so we are essentially deluding ourselves.  Other times, it’s hard to differentiate between living for others – either through martyrdom or trying to impress them.  This is why looking at our motivations is an important exercise in life.  There is nothing wrong with wanting to be respected for what you do, but doing it for respect is a dead end street of looking for approval outside of yourself.  Freedom Is Mine is about finding that balance of giving/receiving with others, giving/receiving with earth, action/rest, yes/no, etc.  It is important to be Free within yourself and interacting compassionately with others.  If you are dependent on others to behave a certain way to please you, then you are not Free with them.   This is a fine line of setting boundaries and allowing others to be who they are.  Not allowing a friend to be emotionally abusive is a good boundary to set.  Not allowing a friend to believe differently than you is too dependent on the behaviors of others for your happiness. 
Freedom Is Mine is about living sovereignty.  As we live and breathe sovereignty, we teach it to children from a place of great love.  We teach it to business with an understanding of value.  We teach it to relationship with the ease of equality.  We teach it to money with the simplicity of joy.  We teach it to the systems that don’t work with our focus on Truth and Compassion.  Freedom Is Mine points to the knowledge that Freedom must be lived from within before it truly manifests out in the world.  As you are living it, you are teaching others to access it as well.  In my opinion, this is the greatest gift you can give another – access to their own self-respect, their own choices and their own understanding of their immense value.
As we sit to Blast Freedom Is Mine, we are remembering that the beauty of separation is the focus that it provides our uniqueness.  We are understanding that all paths have potential to lead to a wonderful life, no matter how winding, long or bumpy at times.  We are allowing Flow to show us that all change is good change as we move constantly along the river of life.  We are accessing our courage to value ourselves, our wisdom to trust ourselves and our vulnerability to push ourselves to greater heights.  We are recognizing the beauty in others as they choose and prioritize differently than we do, and as we recognize their inherent Freedom as well.  We are understanding that we are Free to feel each moment as we do and choose anew.  We are remembering that our grace is inborn and our action is a choice, starting from within.  Freedom Is Mine means Freedom for all.  Blast on!


All can be accomplished with Excellent Communication.  I think it is so cute how this LightBlast came through.  ‘Excellent’ always seems so sweet to me, perhaps because Bill & Ted’s Excellent Adventure was a fun, campy staple of my college years; there was such a joyful innocence to that movie, yet a nice message (Be excellent to each other).  Remember that courage from Allowing Another Within from last week?  Well, it ain’t over yet!  (Is bad grammar allowed in Excellent Communication?  LOL!)  Communication is a sharing.  In its fullest sense, Excellent Communication entails complete honesty.  As I’ve watched myself step up to the plate on more honest communication over the years (work in progress) I’ve realized I had to let go of manipulating through emotions, knowing when I’m reacting from my own insecurities and displacing them on another, standing up to a hard Truth that needs to be spoken as I hold my boundaries, allowing others to try to manipulate and calling them on it or letting them think I didn’t notice, as appropriate.  I’ve learned how to interact with people that will perpetuate negative or limiting beliefs and steer the conversation into a non-polarized discussion or just let them maintain their status quo without supporting it.  I’ve let go of gossip as daily sustenance (I still imbibe once in awhile – don’t judge!  LOL!) and I let go of continuing to mainly tell a negative story and focusing on ‘what is’ as the only valuable perspective.   
Excellent Communication begins Within.  It begins with being honest with yourself, forgiving with yourself and expanding your comfort zone to a new height of honesty.  Excellent Communication is a moment-by-moment interaction.  There are those that we communicate easily with – use them to appreciate how wonderful it can be.  There are those that challenge us with avoidance, degradation, manipulation, deception.  Use them to appreciate your inner recognition of where they are, where you are and where you want to be with your integrity and honesty.  Enjoy it all, for it is all serving growth.  Sometimes you don’t get to see another improve, but your honesty, your compassionate honesty, can help.  Being compassionate with yourself and supporting your own step-by-step improvement is also important.  There are those that we have such an emotional charge with that we may not have access to deep compassion for them yet.  There are those that are such poor communicators that we may not have expansive communication with yet (or ever).  These are all teaching us great lessons.  Progress is always happening when you are courageous enough to become aware. 
Sometimes Excellent Communication means the wisdom choice is maintaining silence.  Is it our job to point out all the rights and wrongs of another?  No, it is our job to maintain our own progress and Flow of Improvement, which means going Within, assessing our needs/motivations, evaluating Another’s involvement with it and expressing ourselves clearly, completely and Lovingly.  Sometimes that results in silence (or observance), sometimes conversation, sometimes confrontation.  Healthy boundaries are imperative to  Excellent Communication.  Communicating Lovingly doesn’t mean you’re a doormat, it means you wisely interact from a place of Allowing others to be as they are, maintaining your own boundaries of safety and fulfillment and choosing to create your life in an ever increasing Flow of Love and Empowerment. Confrontation doesn’t mean a rageful, abusive explosion.  It is best served as a calm, direct discussion, and getting someone to agree or even apologize should never be the goal.  Expressing yourself and holding your own boundaries is all that is ever necessary for your benefit.   
As we sit to Blast Excellent Communication, we are listening to our own heart and learning to Allow Love to be our response.  We are remembering that we are Empowered sovereign Beings that compassionately and assuredly hold our own boundaries.  We are understanding that the voice of Love has many words and actions that communicate constantly with an open heart.  We are activating our own Powerful Love that transforms the way the world shares and relates.  We are Lighting the way to a New Empowered World of Love as we Communicate clearly, honestly, patiently, compassionately and most Excellently.  Blast on, dudes!  :o)


This is a time of great empowerment if we are well with change.  Change is best served by listening to our heart and Trusting Love to Create.  It takes great empowerment because the world does not automatically reflect Love to you at this time.  It has been reflecting traumatic natural disasters, greed, abuse, lies, war, lack, blame.  Not easy stuff to Love.  You don’t have to Love it, your job is to Love Life.  Love the process that is before you; find the thread of Love, the thread of possibility for Love within it and loom a new fabric of Life.   This takes a courageous honesty that is not as common as you may think.  To admit to yourself that you are afraid, insecure, resentful, annoyed, confused, avoiding – these are courageous acts.  So many numb to them, deny them, avoid them or  mask them with ‘feeling only love.’  The inner work, the inner experience is something that takes great courage because our societies  mostly teach repression and avoidance of emotion, (often unless to use them for financial gain).  It’s a courageous person that unplugs from the machine.  The confusing part is we’re still living in the world.  This is ‘being in the world, but not of it.’
So here we are then at Allowing Another Within.  We did Another Within about a month ago.  It was about our connection to All, to our Source Energy, to each other.  Here we take it to a new level of courage.  It is time.  How powerful are you to let Life live through you?  How powerful are you to embrace Life as perfect in each painful or joyful moment and Allow it, Release it, Improve it?  How powerful are you to not just tolerate others, but to Love them as they are? (Dang that’s a toughie sometimes!)  How powerful are you to maintain focus on the thread of Love in a situation that doesn’t inspire it?  How powerful are you to empathize with others, help them as appropriate and yet not take responsibility for them or feel guilty for not being as challenged as they are?   Are you courageous enough to maintain boundaries that support your wellbeing and empowerment?  How powerful are you to engage this worldly life fully and maintain your Divine Connection?  How much Divinity can you bring into each moment of your life?  It won’t all be rainbows.  Sometimes it’s the storm before the rainbow.  But storms always pass and rainbows always come, even if we don’t see them.  Can you endure?
What if it wasn’t about endurance?  The real question is can you enjoy it?  It’s not a matter of ‘yay, someone is suffering!’ enjoyment, it’s a deep appreciation for the process of Life and the transformation that results from the challenges.  It’s the understanding that the experience of Life is going through death and birth, and appreciating both for what they are.   Renewing, progressing, learning, improving.  This is the middle road, not the center of two extremes that are avoided, the all-encompassing understanding that embraces All for its unique perspective and finding Love within that.  That Another may choose differently, even if that choice is to suffer, hate or avoid – is the gift of empowerment that each has Within.  Can you Love them, even if it’s from a distance, for their possibility to find Love within the challenge or the choice of today?  It takes a courageous person to Love in the face of disdain.  Can you enjoy that?  You may be in a moment of storm with it – enjoy that, too.  It isn’t the fun part, it’s the part you appreciate for the cleansing, the release, the focus toward improvement.  And I don’t mean release as in, ‘I’ll be happy when…,’ I mean release as in letting go, even if that situation remains in your life. 
Allowing Another Within takes the great courage that Allowing entails, for it is not a space of control, it is the unknown.  It takes the great courage of recognizing that difference is a gift of each human, even if you disagree with their choices.  It takes the great courage of looking Within during a moment of storm and appreciating the benefits of challenge; the I/eye of the storm!  Look for that place of calm/neutrality Within.  It takes great courage to share in Another’s pain, release it and see them as empowered to do the same, even if they can’t find the courage yet.  It also takes courage to share in Another’s joy and embrace any feelings of lack or jealousy that come up Within you, so that your courage to Love heals pain instead of numbing to it.  This is a time of courage.  It’s a time of focusing the mind to serve the heart.  It’s a time of living your Divinity in a world that doesn’t just reflect it easily. 
As we sit to Blast Allowing Another Within, we are activating our courageous Divine Nature that Knows Love as a way of Life, a way of Expansion and a way of Healing.  We are recognizing the Divinity in All, not just the nice ones we agree with.  We are remembering that it is our powerful Love that changes the world, magnetizing new form based in Love that is building over time from the unseen to the seen.  We are embracing the Knowing that we are courageous enough to welcome the entirety of Life, Knowing our limit of the moment (Allow the storm to pass) and expanding through increased focus on the thread of Love.  We are opening our Sacred Heart to the Creative moment of Now.  We are Changing.  Ourselves, others, our World.  Blast on!


This is a powerful time of recognizing our potent creative abilities.  We have had this lesson all year as the December solstice and eclipses propelled us into a new level of personal responsibility and Creative responsibility.  It is our inner attention and emotional output that emanate a call to Creation.  Our heart is a powerful electromagnetic organ that speaks to us through emotion and communicates to the world around us via the electromagnetic field.  As we feel Love, we are emanating a vibration of Love that magnetizes more Love to us.  As we feel fear, we are emanating a vibration that magnetizes more fear.  Fear becomes a cycle of non-solution, victimhood and overwhelm.  Maintaining a perspective of Love (via F.O.C.U.S. on Gratitude and Trust) is important to your vibrational output.  Our brain is an electromagnetic organ as well, but not nearly as strong as the heart.  The brain is a beautiful machine of focus, categorization, comparison, understanding and choice analysis.  When it is used in response to the heart, it follows a powerful remembrance of our Divinity.  When it dominates the heart, it serves the systems outside of us, the worldly systems of survival and fear, the systems that are taught to us by others.  These systems aren’t all bad or completely wrong, they just tend to be fear-based and lack-based.  The heart has the capability to understand and interact with the systems of the world from a place of empowerment and sovereignty.  When the brain serves the heart, you begin to find solution within circumstances that challenge you.  You begin to find courage where overwhelm used to reside.  You begin to find compassion where anger or avoidance dominated your ability to Love. 
This exciting time of Ascension is all about bringing our Divinity into form.  It is the merging of the human and the Divine, a process of remembering what has been forgotten.  We were never without our Divinity, just distracted from it.  Your Divine Nature is the Source Energy within you that creates.  It is the glue of the universe, Love.  It is Love that unites the unseen building blocks of Life into form.  The gift of your Divine Nature is choice.  You have a choice as to whether or not you enhance your connection with your Divinity.  Your choice to interact with your Divine Love is your choice to Create anew. 
We create all the time.  It’s built-in functionality.  We are constantly receiving vibrational input and emanating vibrational output that interacts with the unseen building blocks of Life.  Choose your vibration and you have chosen to Create instead of re-create or re-act to what has already been.  This moment of now is as it is.  Your choice to find the thread of Love within it, the Power of Divinity, is your active interaction with change, with Creation.  That situation that is challenging you?  It is offering you the gift of choice to Create with Love.  Feel the anger, the frustration, the possibility, the relief, the hope, the Trust, the Gratitude…  When the mind serves the heart, it has access to a perspective of Love that sees the possibility of solution.  In this way, you allow your mind to serve your expansion via the powerful electromagnetic capacity of the heart as it seeks more Love, more joy, more excitement.  Challenge can either inspire change for the better or propagate more fear, disillusionment and disempowerment.  Choose Love and you’ve chosen to Create new form.  Choose Love and you’ve chosen to heal instead of repress or continue a destructive pattern.  Your choice to Love changes how you deal with everything around you, as the vibrations you receive have less fearful or disruptive energy to you and the vibration you emit magnetizes more Love.  That’s using the heart/mind connection to improve your life and the life of others you may or may not come into contact with.
As we sit to Blast Creation Within, we are allowing our mind to serve our improvement rather than being dominated by outside stimulation and demands.  We are opening our heart to lead us to greater Love and using our brilliant mind to determine a path.  We are feeding the world around us with the vibration of Love, the energy of Source, The Great Unifier.  We are remembering that we are powerful electromagnetic Beings that magnetize and emanate out via a field of unseen energy.  We are beginning to Love exactly where we are because it is leading us to exactly where we will be.  We are fulfilling our Soul Path to Remember Love, the powerful unseen building block of form.  We are remembering that Choice is our inner sanctum of Divine Creativity and the world is asking us to remember so we can shine forth a beacon of Love.  We are going within our powerful heart to teach ourselves and others that Love is the quest, the answer, the Creator of form.  Creation begins Within.  Blast on!


How bright is the Light Within you?  Are you feeling its warmth, the glow of excitement and the electricity of expansion?  This is Love.  Love is Freedom Aligned.  Love is the reason, the rhyme, the elixir and the flavor.  It brings each moment to Glory, it brings polarity to understanding, it brings release to fear, it brings Creation to your physicality.  Within Freedom Aligned, there is only Love.  Not just one feeling – All is Love.
What keeps you from Freedom?  Each day it may be a different focus that comes forward for your understanding.  I watch myself as I resist fears, resist emotions and resist movement forward so I can be assured of…what?  Acceptance?  Lack of failure?  Less negative emotions?  And yet courageously, I move beyond them at my own pace because I choose to move beyond them.  Some of them known and consciously avoided, some of them yet unknown – or at least undefined enough to remain unaware for a bit longer.  But through my choice to expand and improve they are eventually revealed.  Longing for the release as a lover longs for the beloved.  I learn over and over again to allow myself and others to each have a different pace, a different focus, a different choice.  With that, a taste of Freedom Aligned. 
Freedom is a moment, Aligned until the next moment of resistance, the next moment of withholding full Love for what is.  Freedom is a feeling, Aligned until the next moment of fear – realized, avoided or unaware, but still infecting the moment.  Freedom is the release from fear, the release from resisting even vaguely fearful experiences, like the unspoken judgment of another. 
Fear is a potent method of paralyzing Love Flow.  Fear in and of itself is not all bad, sometimes it results in Flow.  For instance, anger is an emotional response that masks fear.  It may be anger at someone that has wronged you, it may be anger at a situation like poverty, it may be anger at yourself for avoiding your fears (heehee).  Underneath the aforementioned anger may be fear of abandonment, fear of survival and fear of worthlessness, respectively (among other nuances).  Anger can move you to action.  Many people actually need it for movement because they can’t initiate through Love or receiving.  Sometimes, that’s where I am (anger need not manifest loudly – rage is a different story!).  Anger will allow you access to movement, even improvement, because you break past a wall that was holding you in.  Ever get so angry at a boss that you finally get another job?  Ever get so angry at yourself for not taking a chance that you take one next time?  Anger is like a wild wind, while understanding is like a gentle breeze.  They each have their benefits; sometimes it takes a wild wind to really clear the air, other times wild wind can be destructive.  Sometimes a gentle breeze is just enough to cool you off on a spring day.  Summer might require something stronger.  Eventually, you become accustomed to your new empowerment and you move gracefully past the types of issues that would have caused anger before.  For instance, you realize that the boss is acting out insecurities and fears and you need not plug into the emotions of it.  The gentle breeze becomes a way of life with no resistance to anger when it surfaces for resolution.
So much of our fear is fear of the future.  We fear for financial safety, emotional safety, physical safety (health and otherwise).  These can be easily understood.  In looking at life in society today, it’s easy to understand how they have solidified.  They are further perpetuated by a cycle of greed that relies on fear to make money or hording to ensure safety in an unsafe and supply-limited world (lack).  The only way to move past these fears is to find the perspective of Love, of ease or sometimes of anger that moves you to change.  When I can find a perspective of the benefits of things that I fear, then I can embrace them.  Some are easier than others, so I recognize some and work on them, I recognize some and put them away for another day, and others I ignorantly avoid or don’t define until later.  But I choose to move past them eventually and Love is the only bridge to new land.  A bridge to Freedom Aligned. 
As we sit to Blast Freedom Aligned, we are seeking a new perspective past the fears that keep us bound.  We are opening to Love where Love was denied and embracing a new path.  We are recognizing that fear is money for many and we can stay grounded in reality and safety at the same time.  We are becoming sovereign in our emotions and our reactions.   We are becoming empowered within all interaction in life, even as others perpetuate habits of avoidance or lack.  We are crossing the bridge to our new Divine Beingness that Knows us as Creators of a Love-based world.  We are recognizing the beauty in the journey and the value of diversity and challenge as each moment offers new understanding of our capability.  We are releasing the fears of the future, the resentments of the past and allowing our ability to Love become the magnet for Freedom Aligned.  Blast on!

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